I mean, yeah guys are way more interested in a girl who has actual interests outside of being a "feminazi praying mantis"
It's amazing how completely oblivious and unaware some of these feminists are. I'm continually stunned, week after week, of some of the things I take for granted that so many of them just seem so clueless about.
I just want to grab them by be shoulders and shake them like a baby and yell "LOOK AT YOURSELF! LOOK AT WHAT YOUVE BECOME!" David Hasselhoff style.
Or do you mean Sassy Gay Friend style?
Whoa, whoa, what are you doing? What are you doing?
Expecting a woman to be interesting is misogyny and proof of rape culture shitlord!
I don't have to interest you! It's not my obligation to be interesting!!
Now find my fat attractive!
How very surprising
She's looking for love on Tindr. Is it surprising she's an idiot?
That aside, the smugness in this is absolutely suffocating. "Yes, I lack charm, and I'm too obsessed with my own cleverness, and I mistake being a slob for being unique, but at least I'm not boring like all those women who actually act gasp feminine."
eh you can find long term relationships on Tinder, met my girlfriend of 6 months on Tinder. I mean it's not love, but not everyone is there for a fire and forget one night stand
This is the longest version of "I'm not your average girl" I've ever seen on a woman's dating profile...and that's saying something considering its on every woman's dating profile
Internet activist pretends to be a nice person, is outraged when people like her better.
Maybe because in your 'non-feminist' Tinder profile, you don't sound arrogant, stuck up, and about as fun as a tabasco sauce enema?
It's mind blowing that these are the same idiots who bitch about "Nice Guys" who don't understand why they can't get a date.
It's the feminist version of "nice guys", really.
And the overall female version of "nice guys" is "where have all the good men gone?"
Where are all the gods?
"They're with the good women. "
Well, I think you're unwittingly pointing out something important.
Most guys prefer nice girls. As a result, they wrongly assume that girls like nice guys.
Conversely, in my experience many girls are turned on by guys who have plenty of girls around. They mistakenly assume that the guys they're interested in are the same. Except we're not, at least I'm not: a girl is not more attractive to me because she's attractive to other guys, and I'm not interested in competing with other roosters to reach the top of the shitpile.
Girls are, generally, attracted to confident guys. Many jerks are confident.
That's about it.
IIRC, attractiveness comes not only from "maturity" and confidence, but also from popularity/competition.
In other words, many women find it very sexy concept to have a man, who is seen as attractive by many women, but can "open his softer side only for her". The fantasy of "I'm THE GIRL that will change this bad boy" is similar to that.
It's also similar to the guy who complains about the girl he likes going out with jerks all the time. Except while guys see her as a failed chance*, girls see the bad boy as an opportunity.
I managed to attract girls throughout high school just by being, frankly, good-looking, smart, and quiet. The only problem was that I didn't realize girls were interested until six years after I graduated. When I got to uni, the same thing happened.
*In reality, if she goes out with jerks and she chooses him, what does that say about him?
Not exactly, they are attracted to socially dominant men, and confidence is a proxy for that. So is being a jerk, because outside the very extended family circle that is the developed world, being a jerk gets you killed ... unless you're the boss.
The biggest problem for women is surrounding themselves with ass kissing weak "yes man" than are constantly reinforcing their horrible behavior.
I'm not interested in competing with other roosters to reach the top of the shitpile.
And you wonder why you're single
A true force for good!